So, last night I finally found myself at the movies. Although since my last Film Friday post I’ve seen Oz: The Great and Powerful (twice), Safe Haven, and Oblivion, I haven’t really been inspired to write about them. They were enjoyable movies so don’t get me wrong. I have a soft spot for anything The Wizard of Oz related and I loved the plot twists in both Safe Haven and Oblivion. But after watching the pretty funny movie The Big Wedding, I find myself wanting to talk about that.
On to a little background story first. If it hadn’t been for my mother, I wouldn’t have gone to see it yesterday. She went to the movies to see Oblivion and I checked to see which time she chose to go (purely for selfish reasons – wanted to make sure she was out of the movie on time to pick me up from work) and I happened to see that they were playing The Big Wedding at Regal The Avenues 20 at 9:20 p.m. For someone who doesn’t go to the movies often, I certainly live in the perfect part of town to do so. Regal The Avenues 20 is 5 minutes away from me while Cinemark Tinseltown is about 10 minutes away. The only deciding factor as to which theater I go to is Regal’s delicious berry tea latte. Anyway, I’ll work on being a better moviegoer later.
I dragged along my 29-year-old bestie Derrick and he assured me that the movie theater would be filled with middle-aged to older people. I hadn’t even given any thought to the type of crowd this movie would attract. How could ANYONE pass up a movie with Robert DeNiro, Susan Sarandon, Katherine Heigl, Diane Keaton, Topher Grace, Amanda Seyfried, and Robin Williams??? He was wrong though. It was only about 6 other people there. I really hope that this movie garners more supporters than that over the weekend.
I’m not adept at talking about what I liked in a movie without making it a spoiler alert yet. But I’ll try my best for those of you that have this movie on your list to see.
The story is about a divorced couple that has gone their separate ways but must come together for the wedding of their youngest son: adopted Alejandro. In fact, the actual movie plot is, “A former married couple (De Niro and Keaton) must pretend they are still together to impress their adopted son’s (Barnes) biological mother (Rae) when she comes into town for his wedding.” It sounds sort of cliche and to be honest it was. You already know that if a couple is divorced in a movie, it’s for a good reason and that reason will more than likely be the undoing of the entire story. Plot and story aside, there were a few snappy one-liners and comebacks and phrases that should make you either laugh or cringe or both.
So what did I enjoy about it so much that I decided to blog about it over the other movies that I’ve seen? For me, it wasn’t about the story but the individual characters as usual. Diane Keaton was her usual slightly awkward for her age self. But she seemed like the coolest parent to have. Katherine Heigl was a bit high-strung (which she always plays well) but at the end you find out why and it’s a very valid reason. It was nice to see Robin Williams. I feel like it’s been such a long time since I last did. His usual funniness was toned down a little bit for his role as the father of the Catholic Church. Topher Grace’s character reminds me of the one he played in That 70’s Show. I’m a little perturbed at the fact that they didn’t get an actual Hispanic male to play the role of the adopted son. Instead, they cast Ben Barnes. I have nothing personal against him and his acting. But, it always bothers me to see a non-minority person play the role of a minority person and all they had to do was get a serious skin tan. The only exception to this would be the movie Cloud Atlas. Amanda Seyfried didn’t really have a memorable role but her name is hot right now thanks to Les Miserables so that should get some people out to see this film. Susan Sarandon wasn’t very memorable to me either but I’m sure someone in the audience will be able to see themselves in her. Sometimes, that’s all it’s about: being able to personally connect with a character so that you are emotionally attached to whatever happens to them in the film. Maybe I’m partial but I always love Robert DeNiro in any role he plays. The relationship between Katherine Heigl and Robert DeNiro sort of hit home for me. Daughter/father relationships in any capacity really tend to strike a chord. If you’ve ever felt betrayed by your father and find yourself fighting between always showing him disdain yet wanting to show that you love him, then it’ll hit home for you too. It also gave me thoughts on how to handle my personal situation.
All in all, the movie was raunchy, colorful, and full of intermittent laughs. The actual story wasn’t memorable and heart-warming but it’ll do for only an hour and a half of your time. Yet, if I could define this movie in one word it would honestly be love. It comes in all shapes and forms and sizes. At times, you don’t even realize that you’re experiencing it because it may not be in a form that you’re used to. But I do believe that every single version of love is portrayed in this movie. Every…single…one. O_O